My Boss Is Testing My Patience

No matter how excellent I perform at work, it just seems as though my boss has a problem with me. When I first landed my job I was so excited, my colleagues were and are amazing. My boss seemed ok the first 2 weeks but after that be turned into a somewhat dictator. Don’t get me wrong. I am all for order, performing and hard work but he now makes me uneasy as he micromanages me as he checks my time-in and time-out.

Though newer than everyone at my work, o am the highest performer and outdo targets every month without fail. Even the CEO who mainly never comes out onto the main floor came to my desk and said he has noticed my hard work and he’s pleased I’m a part of the company. My line manager must have caught wind of this because ever since that’s when he’s been picking problems with everything I do. I know every leader feels the pressure of generating results, building the most effective teams and creating a high performance workplace in order to sustain secure sustainable outcomes:

However, at the same time as an employee in an already stressful job, I am not looking for a boss whose insecure and going to add more pressure and stress. It’s so hard when they know you are a Christian and still have to be NICE. Lately he has been doing more trying to cause my temper to flare but I keep praying about it and will not be moved because I know I belong in this company for now and unless God tells me to move I won’t budge. Am I wrong in asking God to remove this manager from my team to another? Help me with your thoughts.

An email sent in by Samantha who needs our help.

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It is not easy dealing with difficult bosses Samantha, you truly have our sympathies. But before you even think of an exit strategy stick in there like you intend to, It’s not always wise to quit. Try to put yourself in his shoes and see the world, and your workplace, as he might. Here are a few questions to think about.

What does he care about?
What keeps him up at night?
What would he love more of and what would he love less of on a daily basis?
What frightens him?
How much importance does he place on impressing others?
How does he measure success and what does he think about failure?

Do not try exposing his incompetence as this will only compound your own misery and may even damage your reputation. If he is as bad as you think, he will likely do a pretty good job of that all by himself.

I’m sure others may have other things to say and we will open the floor for suggestions.

God bless you

 

 

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